Hey guys! Welcome or welcome back to my blog!
So, people don’t like me. Surprise surprise. And fine, I am an unlikeable person sometimes, and I know it. But you know what, today I’ll be listing the reasons I believe are causes for people not liking me.
Basically, this post is me owning up to my faults, which I don’t, you know, exactly consider my faults. It’s just the way I am.
Also, guys, I know my blog’s also taking a kinda serious tone, but I promise it’s just for a few posts, and if you don’t like these posts, well, that’s alright too.
That, right there is part of the first point-
- It’s MY life:
I’ll be honest. There’re are times when I go all- IT’S MY LIFE on people. I just hate unwanted advice and a lot of times instead of being polite, I retort. I know it’s not one of my better traits, but when I am pissed, and you give me advice, I am bound to let some of that anger on you. And that makes people think I am not actually a pleasant person, and you know what, fine by me.
I am immature on the blog, and you might find it endearing. But people IRL? Not so much. What’s more, they think I am like that all the time, and that it’s actually a weakness, but you know what- bud, no, it’s not a weakness. It’s my way of dealing with stuff when life goes to shit, and it’s my way of being happy when other people are making me mad or sad.
- I call people out:
More often than not, I call people out. A few of my blog posts call people out. I tell people when they do something I don’t like. Well, not always, but sometimes. And when I do that people get mad.
For example, this person I told you guys about- the one who got my blog name wrong? (They’re probably reading right now, lol), when I called them out on the blog, they got mad. And you know what, I am fine with it- they’re the one in the wrong, not me. I just used their mistake for my content- it was my gain, haha. Oops, I did it again with this post.
Look, I like to know stuff about people. I don’t pass that stuff on, but I like to know stuff. I am a curious soul.
I may come across as an arrogant person sometimes, and that’s because I am one, but only sometimes. I am a person who’s selectively social, and I don’t like to talk to everyone. I am like that, I admit. It annoys me when people ask me things they could have asked anyone else. That’s just the introvert in me I guess. I am just a generally reserved person, who likes to keep stuff from my different lives (blogging, family, friends) separate.
I am plain. A plain Jane. Like if you don’t know me well, and you meet me IRL, I would exhaust conversation material in 5 minutes. The other person has to extract material from me- it’s in there, it’s just not at everyone’s disposal.
A lot of people know this here actually, and have complained to me endlessly about it. They’re like Riddhi, why do you have to be so formal. I just like to come across as a little …. grown-upish, since I am so childish in my posts. As for IRL, I just can’t relate to people getting all friendly the first time they meet- like I like to keep my walls up for sometime.
And those were seven reasons people don’t like me! Let me know why you don’t or didn’t (past tense) like me (I promise not to take offense), and why people don’t like you! Own up to it guys, you’re perfect the way you are and people who don’t like you should realise that!
P.S.-1 I am aware my blog is going from being totally bookish to becoming partly bookish and partly non-bookish, so I like, just hope y’all are fine with it. Because while it’s my blog, it would exist without you. So, let me know if you support or oppose it.
P.S.-2 I may or my not be starting a serious segment on my blog called Reasons- let me know if you support or oppose it.